You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.Jim Rohn, mentor to Tony Robbins

Who are your 5 closest friends?

Do they inspire you to excellence in all areas of your life?

Or are they holding you back, dragging you down, & discouraging you from reaching your dreams?

If the answer is the latter, read on.

Jim Rohn’s “5 friends” quote is well know.

But how many people really live by it?

And what difference would it make if more men did live by it?

I started fiercegentlemans.com because I was tired of seeing a world torn apart by divorce, spousal abuse, addiction & misogyny.

Men & women need to heal their wounds, and find their way back to each other.

And as men, that work starts with working on ourselves first.

My career as a teacher has taught me this: we change based on the people around us.

So it makes the most sense to put ourselves around the most inspiring, motivation, passionate, hard-working, successful people we can find.

That’s what the Fellowship does.

NOT JUST ANOTHER ‘MASTERMIND’

When you join the Fierce Gentleman Fellowship, you join the inner circle of committed, thoughtful, action-taking men who are pushing their lives to the next level.

You’ll also receive ongoing direct coaching from a certified Master coach.

The Fellowship is not just another Mastermind discussion group.

Nor is it group therapy.

Using The 5 Steps to Becoming a Fierce Gentleman as our “textbook” we work together to achieve the following benchmarks:

• Get free of bad habits & addictions
• Upgrade our social circles so that we’re built up, not torn down
• Start healthy habits like meditation, exercise, sleeping better, eating better
• Embarking on new, purposeful missions, whether it be job change or entrepreneurship
• Getting our art or creativity out into the world
• Doing what we really want to be doing with our lives
• Finding the right romantic partnerships
• Living a rich life and a good life
• Enriching our families and our communities
• …and more.

The reason to join is not that you’ll “learn how to become a Fierce Gentleman.”

(That you can learn by reading the book, or the blog posts.)

The reason to join is that by virtue of joining, over time, you will be a Fierce Gentleman. 

If that seems like a tall promise, don’t underestimate what your environment can do to transform your behavior.

Sure, you can learn how to be fit, how to be a millionaire, or how to be enlightened, for free on the internet, from anywhere in the world.

But what’s actually going to cause you to become those things?

A good first step would be to move into a house where 5 fit, enlightened millionaires lived.

(If you did that, you’d be very likely to become the 6th fit, enlightened millionaire.)

So it stands to reason that if you surround yourself with other men who are doing their work and improving their results in the world….the same will happen to you.

The good news is, you don’t have to be fit, enlightened or a millionaire to join the Fellowship.

You just have to be willing to do the work on yourself.

Because all the other guys in the Fellowship already are.

There’s just one way to radically change your behavior: radically change your environment.B.J. Fogg, PhD, Stanford University

Any program of self-improvement takes effort.

You have to be honest with yourself.

How are you going to ensure that you continuously take the small steps that you have to execute…for months on end…to guarantee you’ll reach your goals?

You can’t rely on your willpower alone.

For most of us, we can’t rely on our current friends, either. Most of us start out with “friends of convenience” who do as much to pull us down as they do to build us up. The tall poppy gets cut, crabs in a bucket, etc.

You could spend invest in a professional Coach.

As a professional Coach myself, I know that this does work, and I know how expensive it is to hire one (I’ve hired many myself.)

And for those of you that prefer to work with someone privately in a 1-on-1 setting, we do offer that on a limited basis.

But what if you are fully committed to doing the work, but just don’t have all that much disposable income (yet)?

I started the Fellowship because I knew men were willing to do the work — and I didn’t want any man to be prevented from doing his best work because of the barrier of money.

I want to help as many men as possible, at scale and at speed. And that means lowering the barrier to entry.

Let’s talk details. Membership gives you exclusive access to:

• A community of peers who will hold you fiercely accountable to goals you set for yourself
• Encouragement when you’re feeling down
• Time-tested strategies & tactics, won by hard experience, from your peers & mentors — learn from guys older than you or more skilled than you in a particular area
• The chance to learn from others’ experience and accelerate your own journey towards your goals
• The chance to gain from mentoring & coaching others to achieve their greatest potential

The logistics look like this:

• We meet on the 1st and 3rd Monday of each month, at 6pm Pacific Standard Time / 9pm Eastern
• Calls are accessible via phone, Skype, international local dialing, or web interface
• All calls are 100% confidential
• Calls are NOT recorded (to ensure confidentiality)

With rights come responsibilities. Members agree to:

• Live, as close as possible, the precepts of the Fierce Gentleman lifestyle
• To keep everything discussed within the Fellowship in strictest confidence
• To support one another with compassion, honesty, humor, and fierceness
• Agree to a 3-month Membership in the Fellowship

If you’re interested in joining the Fellowship, fill out a brief application form below.

You’ll hear from us soon.